Loralee May

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Friday, May 20, 2011

Leadership Lessons From A Crazy Old Man


In today's culture of megachurch marketing, rockstar worship teams, multi-million dollar Christian conferences and tv personality pastors, I want to pay tribute to someone who,  while he never wrote a best-seller or had his own television ministry, was one of the single greatest leaders I have ever had the privilege of knowing. He forever impacted my life not only by what he taught, but by how he lived. 

   The only thing older than he was, were his suits; which never matched and could perhaps have been carbondated to the Mesopotamian era.  He had a thin gray goatee which he stroked with one hand while holding his elbow whenever he was deep in thought, which was often.  He drove his beat-up excuse for a car around our college campus never going over 25 mph and stopping every few yards to talk to students through its rolled down windows.  

Leadership Principle One: Who you are is more important than how you appear.

Leadership Principle Two: Always move slowly enough to communicate value to the ones you lead. 

   He was a bit of a rebel, or at least anti-establishment. When the college administration insisted all professors wear suits and ties reflective of the slick business approach they were trying to replicate, he decided to model his absolutely outrageous collection of bowties.  It was always one of the highlights of the day to see what horribly mismatched bowtie he would be wearing.   It was not uncommon for him to announce that we were all going to cut class (himself included) and then proceed to treat the whole class to hot chocolate in the student lounge where he would regale us with stories or engage us in a theological debate.

Leadership Principle Three: Sometimes a sense of humor sends the most serious statement.  

Leadership Principle Four: The best learning often happens outside the classroom.

     He single-handedly funded a library for Bible School students in India primarily by donating all of his lecturing honorariums and by routinely passing around a styrofoam cup with "India" scribbled on its sides to which we would gladly surrender our last dollar and forfeit our morning coffee in order to contribute. He could reduce a classroom full of college basketball players to tears by sitting on top of his desk, one leg folded underneath him, unwrapping the beauty and wisdom contained in a single scripture verse as he deftly wove his brilliance for Greek exegesis together with a gift for storytelling that kept his students enthralled.   We hung on his every word, not only because of his brilliant command of scripture, but also because we knew that this man had been wounded not only in war (he usually taught holding his elbow due to shrapnel wounds), but he had been deeply wounded in life.  ( He lost his only son to a tragic car accident when his son was just 16 years old).  His voice would still break and his eyes fill with tears on the few times he spoke of it and yet there was no bitterness, no raging at God, no "life isn't fair" refrain, only a melody of "it is well with my soul" which could not but break us in the listening of it.

Leadership Principle Five: When it comes to sacrificial giving, others will follow your example.

Leadership Principle Six:  The impact of your message will be determined by the authenticity of your life. 

   While, a deans list GPA was important to most of us, the highest honor we could receive was a nod from him and his iconoclastic compliment of "you're okay."  There was no  greater honor, unless of course, you were one of the "few" to have received one of the books from his prized personal library.  Books were the only treasure he allowed himself and he made it a self-imposed discipline to give them away to his students, always with a hand-scrawled note of encouragement inside their cover.

Leadership Principle Seven:  Give away what you most love to those you love most.

     While he could have been teaching at much larger universities making a significantly greater salary, he chose to spend the end of his career at a small, obscure Bible School in Pennsylvania pouring his love for learning, his passion for God and his commitment to truth into his students. His name was Hobart Grazier or "Brother Grazier" to his students.

     In a culture where evangelical popularity often comes wrapped in designer suits, announcing it's own importance with slick seeker-friendly marketing, on made for tv customized sets, wisdom can sometimes go unrecognized.   God wrapped His greatest gift of wisdom in swaddling cloth.  Sometimes wisdom comes in moth-eaten, mismatched suits with ridiculous bowties. I thank God for that wisdom.  I thank God for Brother Grazier and the lifelong lessons he not only taught, but lived.
    

    

12 comments:

  1. I was honored to have received one of those books, and though it hasn't traveled the world over with me, I do still have it stashed somewhere, as it's worth to me is far greater than gold. I too am so thankful for the impact he made on my life, and am thankful to God for the opportunity to have sat under his teaching.

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  2. I remember sitting in one of his classes when the subject that he expounded on so touched my heart that I was reduced to tears. Later in the day, I went over to the faculty building and stuck my head in his office. When I did, Brother Grazier replied, "I've been waiting for you." That's just the type of man he was. He taught with humility and the power of God which both touched and transformed not only my life, but thousands of other students who sat under his ministry.

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  3. Thanks for sharing Holly and Gail, hopefully others will too. His life left such a tremendous legacy. When I have been tempted to become disillusioned and disenfranchised with church politics, marketing, or my own shortcomings, I think of Bro. Grazier. He was such a supporter of women in ministry as you both know. He was the reason I was a ministerial major at VFCC to begin with...but that's another story!

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  4. The other day I told some folks that I work with Bro Grazier's definition of God's will for your life. It went something like this, "Boy, God's will is for you to do the best you can right where you are at right now"! What an impact. Thanks Loralee...Bill Fray

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  5. Hey Bill!
    Thanks for sharing that! Best definition I've ever heard of doing "God's will!" Another Grazier classic. Great to hear from you!

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  6. "Hey God, I'm going fishing... if you need me, I'll be in the boat." this practical approach to life in ministry has helped keep me sane through some pretty stressful times. i still think about many of the "lessons outside the lessons" the Bro. Grazier lived in front of us. thanks for such a great job of articulating them !

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  7. Today, I live and work in India. Why? Because in November 1982 this same man we are talking about impacted my life as a 'passthrough' visiting VFCC. Thank you Brother Grazier.

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  8. I often reflect on a May term evening class that started rather routinely. Bro. G asked for prayer requests.... which resulted in the entire Romans and Corinthians class face down before the Lord for 3 hours!! We simply wept! I find myself yearning for those days. "Send us the rain Lord!" xo Jackie (Morrison)

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  9. Me too Jackie! I have yet to meet another leader who has so demonstrated the grace and power of God combined with academic brilliance, wisdom, brokenness and a sense of humor! He truly was one of a kind and I think so often of the lessons he taught by the way he lived his life.

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  10. I also received one of Bro. Grazier's books over 30 years ago. It has been one of my prized possessions. Like most who were privileged to set under his teaching I walked away a whole lot different than I started

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  11. If it isn't too late to comment: You reminded me of all the delightful personal quirks that described our believed teacher. He taught me 1965-69. I also loved the way he swung his arms as he bounced along in a flowing gait and his intellectual and elevated laugh that shared more approval than funny. He taught me Hebrew when it wasn't offered on the curriculum and when I thought I—and a half dozen other students with me—would get him in trouble. He laughingly reminded us that he was already that with the school administration. I dreamt of him last night and should blog this myself.

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  12. Yes Bro Graazier as we knew him .. a man who knew God and brought the Presence of God to the class with him ... it was sitting at the edge of the seat .. every single class .. didn't want to let one word slip ... i was just this evening humming a song he taught us in 1978 and I was wondering how come i have not forgotten the words and i came up to the apartment and saw this article on the computer as i searched what had happened to him after all these years ... I can see this beloved man of God has left a legacy of people that he has influenced so deeply in God ... its 18 Jan 2018 today a long way from 1978 but this man's impact on my mind, and my heart and Christian values are immeasurable.. Praise God for such beloved servants of God who truly reflected the Glory of God ... Thank you Jesus for giving us this man so that we could understand your love a little better ... His Song .. "Flow Through Me .. Flow Through Me ... Let the mighty love of God Now Flow through me ... Grant it Lord from day to day ... as I go along life way ... let your love .. so divine .. flow through me ... " ... Regards to all you folks who remember this man fondly as I do ... Vinoo David (vinoodavid@gmail.com)

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